MEN!?

The last week has left me in complete confusion. "He" was by last weekend to see me and everything went great. But then I started to get the silent treatment. So, naturally I responded the same way. By the weekend I was completely lost - but it was obvious I'd done something wrong.
Saturday morning I got a call from him. I played it cool - didn't even ask him if he wanted to come by. He knew I was on to his little game and made a point of asking me how I was and what I was up to. Didn't even bother asking about the boys until the end of the conversation. I continued to play it cool and when we hung up he told me that he would talk to me later.
Sunday I never heard from him. So I called. I decided I wasn't going to put up with another week of his bullshit. I got his voicemail - left a message - and never heard back from him. First thing this morning he's calling me. Apologized for not calling back. Turns out one of his friends stopped by and they got trashed. He wanted to know if we could get together tomorrow night. I told him we might be able to do that - if he could tell me why he went a whole week without talking to me.
Apparently, the stories about him and the boys didn't set well with him. But instead of just telling me that he backed off. He was afraid that if people read too much into things there'd be trouble. I don't think he's so much ashamed of us - I think it's more the fact that nothing is final with the ex.
So, here we are once again. I don't know what will happen. I'm still playing it cool and trying to keep a little distance. Make him want me as much as I want him.